Author Archives: Joshua Brandt

7 Characteristics of Maturing Christ-Followers

This is what the LORD says:

“Stand at the crossroads and look;
ask for the ancient paths,
ask where the good way is, and walk in it,
and you will find rest for your souls.”                     Jeremiah 6:16 (NIV1984)

Inviting you to become who God created you to be…

so that you

    • Desire to see God glorified all over the world
    • Are being discipled and making disciples
    • Are generous with your time and money
    • Live a life of prayer and worship
    • Reflect on Scripture
    • Nurture healthy relationships
    • Live in community

Imagine sitting down for a cup of coffee with a friend, your small group leader, or one of our staff.  They ask how you are doing.  After 5-10 minutes of small talk and filler, they ask you again.  You confess you don’t have the passion for Christ you once had.  You feel like you have stalled.

Your friend reminds you that we are called to be maturing in our faith.  You know this, but what does it mean?  You think about your Grandma, or that old friend who you sit near in worship.  What is it about them?  Why do they seem to get it?

Your friend shows you a list (or talks you through it).  It has 7 characteristics of a maturing christ-follower.  They then ask a simple question: Where are you weakest?

In that uncomfortable, holy moment you answer.  Through conversation your friend offers 3-5 paths (resources) to get to were you know you should be.  You choose one.  Your friend will be following up with you in 1-2 weeks.

Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in[a] the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,  and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”   Matthew 28:18-20

Discipleship is key.

Keith Phillips in The Making of a Disciple (1981) helps us visualize the difference between leading people to become Christians and making disciples.  The chart below shows the difference between one person a day becoming a Christian and one person a year being discipled:

Year                 Evangelist          Discipler
1                             365                      2
2                             730                     4
3                           1095                     8
4                           1460                   16
5                           1825                   32
6                           2190                   64
7                           2555                 128
8                          2920                 256
9                          3285                  512
10                        3650               1024
11                         4015               2048
12                        4380               4096
13                        4745                8192
14                        5110              16384
15                        5475             32768
16                       5840             65536

Some can, and will, dispute this chart.  Is it scientific?  Nope.  Based on research?  Nope.  It is merely here to get us thinking.  If I asked if we wanted to lead one person to Christ everyday or disciple people to maturity over 1-2 years, how would you answer?  Most of us would get caught up in the excitement of our church doubling in size in 12 months.  That gets me fired up.

Until I think about the nursery.  Can you imagine our church nursery with 100+ babies in it?  I shudder to think about it.  You see, when someone becomes a Christian, they are a baby in their faith.  They have no idea about Scripture, no sense of giving- they just know they are saved from sin!  And that is exciting.  For a while.  What happens when the newness and the excitement fade?

Read through Ephesians 4.  See the way it is supposed to work.  Leaders/Disciplers are supposed to lead people to maturity.  Why?

Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming.  Ephesians 4:14 (NIV 1984)

We want people to be able to stand firm in the storms of life.  How will they get there?  They need to be discipled… and then disciple at least one other person.

Can you imagine a church full of maturing Christ-followers?  I can.


Margins

We live marginless lives.  No time.  No space.  No room for God or anyone else.  This month we are talking about finding margins in our time, finances, relationships and health.

January 8   Time

January 15   Finances (with guest Chris Cook)

January 22   Relationships (with guests David & Christina Smith)

January 29   Health

The audio from January 29 was recorded improperly.  If you would like a copy, please email us at info@thegatheringmuncie.org.


One thing… for God’s Glory

So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.

1 Corinthians 10:31 (NIV 1984)

I have seen so many lists already this year: “30 things to stop doing,” “12 things to do in 2012,” My resolutions from last year (updated for this year.”  It is too much.  Literally.

I am convinced we can only really change one thing at a time.  So have a list.  Just make it one thing.

And we should do that one thing for God’s glory.

This is what I had to say about this (Sunday, January 1):


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More than Words

On Sunday, December 4 we continued our Advent Series -Generous Living- by asking ourselves if our love for God and others is more than words.  We looked at 2 Corinthians 8:16-9:5.

If you missed it, you can listen here…


What was it? (Characteristics of Maturing Christ-followers)

Jack Ruff was an elder in the church where I grew up.  His wife was one of our worship leaders.  They started “dating” in elementary school and where together until the day she died.

Jack would eventually be part of the staff at our church.  He was in charge of visitation.  Even when I was in college facing surgery, Jack came to visit me.  It made things easier.  A bit less scary.

Jack would teach the “membership” class during Sunday School.  He would talk people through the history of our church and help them to see their place in the scheme of things.

Everyone looked up to Jack.  People would tell his kids (In their 60s, by the way) how lucky they were to have Jack as a dad.  They would laugh.  ”You should have known him before!”

You see, Jack had matured.  His faith in God had grown and he had grown right along with it.

At the Gathering we often say, “The expectation is for us to become mature Christ-followers.”  Ok, I’ll say it- What does that even mean?

Take a moment and read Philippians 3:12-21.

Did you notice the phrase “take note of those who live according to the pattern we gave you”?  This got me thinking about Jack again, and the large number of Christ-followers I have known who have matured and had impact on my life.  I began to ask myself, “What did they have in common?”  ”What was their character?”

So far I have come up with 7 characteristics of maturing Christ-followers/Christians:

  1. Desire to see God glorified all over the world
  2. Are being discipled and discipling (at least one other person)
  3. Give their time and money
  4. Live a life of prayer and worship
  5. Reflect on Scripture
  6. Have healthy relationships
  7. Live in community
There is a lot more to this.  A lot more swirling in my head and heart.
What do you think about the list?  What is missing from the list?  What is missing from your character?

God has a heart for the world

I felt like God set me up today.  I think he does that sometimes when he really wants us to pay attention.

Tuesday afternoon I met with Jenny Collins.  Her heart and passion for God’s work (missions) both locally and globally is humbling and impressive.  So, I wanted to pick her brain.  Two things she said really stuck out to me:

  • “The goal of all missions is to see God glorified (worshipped).”
  • “We need to understand that God has a heart for the whole world.”

I have been thinking about those things for the last couple of days.  There were on my mind this morning as I drove to Ohio to hear about a ministry in the Middle East.  Within the first five minutes I heard:

  • “The ultimate goal of our ministry is to see God glorified and worshipped all over our country.”
  • “Our ministry is called ‘Heart for our country’ not ‘Hearts for our country.”  Why? We want to seek God’s heart for our country!”

I whispered a prayer, “Father, you have my full attention.”

I was reminded today how much God loves our world.  We know the verse (John 3:16).  We sing songs about it.  We sometimes even pray about it.  However, I don’t think we always get how true it is.  God loves this world.

And the world he loves?  It’s people.

I heard something today that proved it to me even more.  Apparently many Muslim converts begin following Jesus the same way.  They have a vision or a dream of Jesus.  Then they seek out a Christian to explain their dream to them.

I am going to let that sink in for a minute.

The God of the universe loves the people in the Middle East so much that he is appearing to some of them to let them know.  In nations where conversion could mean the death penalty, Jesus is showing up.

This reminds me of something else Jenny said, “Prayer is the work of missions.”

Will you pray with me?

Father,
I pray that you fill the dreams of those who are far from you.
I ask that you would speak to my neighbors, the people who are different from me, and all those around the world.
Help me to be ready to answer unexpected questions about you.
Give me your heart for the world.
Amen.


The backyard matters

The backyard was a mess.

Sure the front lawn was meticulously mowed.  The bushes were trimmed,  There was not a single weed in the flower beds.

Dandelions ran in fear.

But a peak of the six foot high privacy fence revealed a deeper truth:

Last Fall’s leaves still hung in the corners.  The deck hovered over a sea of weeds (any grass gave up the fight years ago).

The only winners were the chipmunks.  They had free range of this suburban paradise.  The neighbor’s cat was too afraid of being lost forever in the green abyss…

How are things behind the fence in your life?  How is your thought life?  Your prayer life?  The things done in secret?

In Matthew 6, Jesus is talking about giving (to the needy), praying and fasting.  He tells us to do those things without grabbing attention.  He says, “your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.”

Is the opposite true?  I know Jesus is talking about good things here in this passage.  However, the truth is the Father “sees what is done in secret”- good or bad!

Let’s take a moment today.

This minute.

Think about your thought life.

The things in your life that are “done in secret.”

Be honest.

If necessary pray and ask forgiveness.  Make the changes necessary.


How to have a real conversation on Sunday morning

I believe we all need more margins in our lives.  More space.  And since we cannot create more time, you and I are going to have to commit to do less.  I know.  It is hard.

I worry that our busyness follows us into worship on Sunday mornings.  We drive into the parking lot, drop of our kids (if we have them), hurry past the greeters at the door, run over to grab a cup of coffee and plop ourselves in our seats.

(This kills our ability to connect in worship.  More on that another time.)

And then we complain, “I don’t have any real friends at church.  No one ever talks to me.”

Really?  I think it is time for us to dig a bit deeper.  I have a challenge for you:

I want you to come 30 minutes early with nothing to do.  So if you are a greeter, making coffee, in the band, parking cars, working with kids- you have to wait a week or two and try it.  You can’t be in a hurry for a real conversation.

And then I want you to talk to someone.  If you are wondering where to start, “hello” is a good place.  And then follow with a question: “How are you?  What’s your name?  What’s new?  How’s it?”

Go on.  Do it.  I dare you.


Things I don’t understand

  • A lust for mediocrity
  • Physical violence toward children
  • Bandwagon fans
  • Rain when the sun is shining
  • Sanka (or any coffee that comes in a can)
  • Milk… in a glass… with ice
  • Wearing a tie with a short sleeve shirt
  • Absentee fathers

Most of all I cannot understand people who do not know who they are.  Let me be clear: I understand it to a point.  I have been there.  I have been confused about my identity.  I have accepted other people’s perception of me as reality.  I have wallowed in my brokenness and ignored my possibilities.

I guess I don’t understand why someone would live their whole life without finding out who they are, who they are supposed to be.

If you are a Christian, the answer to the question is both amazing and beautiful…

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!  1 John 3:1a (NIV)

Have you ever felt that someone has lavished love on you?  It is even weird to write that sentence!  There is a sense in that word that we are covered with his love from head to toe.  Even in the Greek (original language) we find this idea of something being given to us by God that we don’t deserve and we could not have grasped on our own.

And the result of his love?  We are children of God.  I know, I know the commercials on television that plead for our compassion for starving children tell us we are all God’s children.  In a sense they are right.  God created us and this is what we normally talk about when we say “God’s children.”  In truth though that makes us “God’s creations” or even “God’s creatures.”  To be a child is so much more.  It is about having a father, a name, a right… an identity.

How would our lives change if we understood that our core identity was that we are children of God?


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